The act of procrastinating, pushing things further than it should go, telling yourself you would but you won’t until it is too late, You ever wondered why you wake up in the morning annoyed and stare in the mirror with a funny frown for no reason, It’s merely because you slept with a lot on your mind and you thought it through your sleeping period.
I am also caught up in this cycle of leaving things late which is not always a great thing, you just have to do it on time don’t leave things to lie along for too long because the end result is always tedious to achieve when you have to sort it out on a limited timescale.
Let’s start with the well known analogy, we live to die and die to live, if we break it down into sections, its just the mere truth in the simplest term possible.
We are born to live, which means live through life until the end point, it’s a race where you decide to run, walk or remain stagnant at the starting line. Because at the end point we all die and obviously there isn’t a winner in Death.
You can’t afford to remain stagnant, some say life is to short, well some might live till a pretty old age, but regardless in that duration we have to paint our life with excitement, something worth living for.
When you are young, you are meant to live young and be able to say when I was young, and when you at a family age, you are still meant to create excitement for your family, so in a nutshell excitement continues till we are stuck to the chair like a frozen turkey and can’t move.
But, I approach life with the mentality of, no one is really old, we are as old as we think we are. Things we have to realise is that yesterday can’t be relived, we can only picture yesterday in our memory. At least I want to be able to picture what I can smile about.
More so, you can’t afford to live a monotonous lifestyle, if you find yourself in a situation where by your zeal of motivation is gone and you are getting ridiculously bored, I would advice not to be too scared in trying something new.
A dull stagnant life only accumulates frustration, it only taint our smile with moodiness, I am not suggesting you live like a complete arsehole but at least have a bucket list of different things to try out even if it is once in Two months which is 6 exciting things in a year, that is not bad.
If we think about it for people working for instance in a 9-5 job,end up spending 80 percent of their lives at work, so you have only 20 percent to yourself to live life, come on, will you just be treating your self with work and work, no you will need to enjoy that hard work you have invested with time in your own free time.
You don’t want to go home Friday evening after work to sleep throughout a weekend and wake up on Monday morning having really done nothing and repeat the same thing till the year runs out, that will be a pretty boring life. Come on do something different, live bright, live life not just stay alive, occupy it with something interesting.
From the deepest confined space of my bedroom, I write my heart out like an artist paints his work to perfection. emotional attachment is not always usual but when you finally get acquainted with someone, you tend not to understand how to react when there is a distortion in that space of unbalanced spectrum.
Disagreements are inevitable but how long will it take before you both depart and not talk to each other anymore or how far does your intolerance go before you both get satisfaction somewhere else. It’s never a steady road when it comes to this thing called commitment, but I guess to be, you will need to cultivate your sense of satisfaction. Satisfaction for the things you have and the ones that surround you.
Some seek attention, while some have too much attention than they bargained for, either way neither of them are satisfied, they want more and they seek less, how crazy is that, well thats just the usual encounter of Life. A wise being once said the secret to happiness is been satisfied, another one said we never miss what we have until we lose it. If you get some form of attention now better embrace it because I can assure you it is still better now than when you die, lay in the grave and you hardly get visited like a castaway.
Less is more, solve the complexity of this statement, actually its not complex, It just amazes the thought process how it perfectly works or lets say fits almost every situation.